My Device

I mentioned a few years ago that I had purchased a Birdlocked device. I no longer have it. It was very uncomfortable and ended up causing a great deal of chaffing.

Now, that could be because I was new to wearing a device and didn’t know exactly what I was doing, or the tricks of how to wear a device the most comfortably. Nevertheless, I got rid of it and purchased a CB6000s.

The CB6000s worked, and I wore it continuously for 10-14 days many times. It was a chore to keep it clean, though, and took a lot of time every morning in the shower to get it clean enough to meet my standards. I have pretty high standards of cleanliness.

The reason I went with these two devices in the beginning was because of price. I also was self-locked and it didn’t really make sense to me to spend a lot of money on a device when I might just start dating someone who might not like chastity, or want me to get a different device, or…you get the point.

I had always wanted to get a Mature Metal Jailbird and had even had measurements ready so I could buy one the moment I got the opportunity. A month or two after I told GC about chastity, I brought up buying the Jailbird. I showed her the website and she really liked the look of the Mature Metal devices over the plastic CB6000s.

Although we hadn’t even started playing around with chastity, other than for a day or two, GC thought it would be a good idea for me to buy it so when she felt ready we would have what we needed to start.

I bought the Jailbird about a year ago and was ecstatic when it finally came in the mail. For those of you who don’t know much about Mature Metal, they’re products are of the highest quality, reasonably priced, and their customer service is legendary. I think you would be hard pressed to find someone who had an experience with them that was less than completely satisfying.

I was amazed with the workmanship. Every device is hand crafted with great attention to detail. I never wore it continuously for very long, but that wasn’t because it was uncomfortable or anything. It was because GC loves sex and never kept me locked (or allowed me to lock myself) for longer than 3-4 days.

Keep in mind that we’ve only been together for about 1 ½ years. And GC has never been dissatisfied with any aspect of my sexual performance. From the beginning of our relationship I always put her pleasure before my own. Every time we had sex, GC would orgasm at least 3 times, and on many occasions we simply lost count.

Not to toot my own horn (ok, maybe a little) but I’m not a guy with a “useless, pathetic, tiny cock.” I’ve never been with a woman who didn’t tell me I was the biggest and best she ever had. I’m only about 1.5-2 inches when soft, but I’m fairly substantial when hard. Not “OMG LOOK AT IT!” but a little above average. And I know how to use what I have to great effect.

Fast forward to today, and I’ve been locked in my Jailbird since the 3rd. That’s 11 days so far. GC and I made a few rules when we decided to give chastity a serious try. One rule is that she must orgasm on 10 separate occasions before we even consider an orgasm for me. Since she can experience as many as 10-20 (or more) orgasms in a single occasion, or as few as 2-3, it didn’t seem like a specific orgasm count was the way to go.

GC is the one who decides what a “separate occasion” is. Since the 3rd, there have been 6. So 4 more to go. Also, one of the rules is that GC can also add other minimums, such as days, weeks, etc. And she already has. She told me that I won’t have an orgasm until at least the 22nd.

Another rule is that I must wear my Jailbird (JB) any time I am not with her. We only see each other on the weekends, and occasionally for a meal during the week, so that basically means Monday through Friday. I don’t have an emergency key, but the shackle on the lock is brass, so I could easily cut it off with a pair of wire cutters if there ever was an emergency. So there’s no way for me to take the JB off without ruining the lock.

So far, every night I have spent with GC she has told me to take the JB off for bed. So, I can’t say I’ve worn it continuously for very long. But for me and GC, the orgasm denial is the more important aspect, not continual device wear.

Here’s a picture of me in the JB



This was taken a few weeks after I first got it. GC and I have plans to take pictures soon, and I’ll post those as soon as we do.

These are a Few of Our Favorite Things

I thought it might be appropriate to just list many of the fetishes GC and I are into. This is by no means the entire list of our sexual interests, just a general overview of a few things we like. In the future I’ll probably write something about all of them, at one time or another. But for now…

ABDL, the Diaper Lover part

Ball Stretching

Bondage

Butt Plugs

Cock and Ball Torment

Cream Pie

Enforced Chasity

Erotic Photography

Exhibitionism

Feminization

Forced Orgasm

Lingerie

Nipple Play

Orgasm Denial

Power Exchange

Predicament Bondage

Prostate Milking/Massage

Ruined Orgasm

Sex Toys

Spanking (in all its forms)

Strap-on

Tease and Denial

And about those cream pies.......

I remember the first time I cleaned GC's pussy after I had cum inside her. She wasn't expecting it, she'd never had it done before either. I just wanted to keep her coming, as she can orgasm for seeming hours on end, over and over. 

I loved it, and afterwards she asked, "What on earth made you want to do that?"

"I just didn't want you to stop," I told her.

"I loved it, it was so fucking hot," which is just what I was hoping she would say.

"Well, good boys always clean up after themselves," I said with a smile.

"And you're definitely my good boy."

Just the way I love sex to end :)

The Era of Chastity begins for the Curious Couple

I feel like I should start blogging again. Maybe I’ll even do it regularly. I hope to, but I won’t make any promises.

It’s been years since I started this blog and almost as long since my last post, so obviously a lot has changed.

I have a girlfriend that I’ve been with for more than a year and a half. Since my online persona is Living Curious, she chose “Growing Curious” or GC for short, and we’ve named ourselves the “Curious Couple.”

We have an incredibly kinky sex life and it’s absolutely amazing. I told her about my fetishes pretty early on in our relationship and she embraced them. She has an adventurous side, both in the bedroom and out. It was one of the things that first attracted me, besides her being smoking hot.

We had been dating for about 4 months when I finally brought up chastity, last summer. I was so nervous, but she’s always been excited to try new things no matter how outrageous they are so I was fairly certain that she wouldn't run from me screaming, “He’s a lunatic!”

She was interested, but understandably a bit overwhelmed. It’s taken a long time and a lot of growth for us both to be where we are today. We’re an incredibly strong couple and we grow together in ways that never cease to amaze me.

The one thing that we’ve always had going for us was amazing communication. Open, honest communication at any cost, even though it was painful sometimes. Those tough times have only made us stronger as a couple.

We just went through one of those unpleasant growth spurts last month. But that’s what they have always been: short periods of intense growth. Emotionally, mentally, personally and intimately. We now have a love that is so much stronger; much deeper and more profound than either of us ever imagined was humanly possible.

We’ve played around with chastity, but we never get very serious about it. It takes a while. Looking back now, we realize that those times we tried before and failed, we didn’t really fail. They were test runs and they always taught us something.

We realize now that we just weren’t ready at the time. We had a lot of growing to do as a couple. Not that we weren’t strong, but now we realize that we weren’t strong enough.

Well, the time has come. We’re strong. We feel invincible together. We feel ready to embark on a journey of discovery together. We’re ready to dive in and we’re ready to grow as individuals as we examine this aspect of ourselves, and know that we’re strong enough to support each other.

We’re finally ready to sustain our togetherness as we sustain each other in this time of exploration of the unknown. And thus begins the Era of Chastity for the Curious Couple.